As a sex coach, I’m often asked about ways to improve sexual function and enjoyment. One common issue that many people struggle with is insufficient natural lubrication during sex. This can lead to discomfort, pain, and a less pleasurable experience overall.
If you’re looking to boost your body’s natural lubrication, here are 10 things I recommend trying:
1. Stay Hydrated
Drinking plenty of water throughout the day is essential for overall health, including vaginal health. Dehydration can lead to decreased lubrication, so make sure you’re drinking enough fluids.
2. Manage Stress
High stress levels can interfere with the body’s natural lubrication process. Try incorporating stress-reducing activities like yoga, meditation, or simply taking time for yourself each day.
3. Improve Circulation
Increased blood flow to the genital area can help stimulate natural lubrication. Exercise, pelvic floor exercises, and using a vibrator can all help improve circulation.
4. Use a Lubricant
Even if your body isn’t producing as much natural lubrication as you’d like, using a high-quality, water-based lubricant can make sex more comfortable and enjoyable.
5. Experiment with Arousal Oils
Certain arousal oils and serums containing ingredients like aloe vera or vitamin E can help increase natural lubrication and sensitivity.
6. Prioritize Foreplay
Taking the time to engage in extended foreplay can help your body naturally produce more lubrication in preparation for intercourse.
7. Communicate with Your Partner
Open and honest communication with your partner about your needs and desires can help create a more satisfying and lubricated sexual experience.
8. Consider Hormonal Changes
Fluctuations in hormone levels, such as during menopause or after childbirth, can affect natural lubrication. Speak with your healthcare provider if this is a concern.
9. Avoid Irritants
Certain products, such as harsh soaps, douches, or scented tampons, can irritate the vaginal area and disrupt natural lubrication. Opt for gentle, fragrance-free products.
10. Practice Self-Care
Taking care of your overall physical and emotional well-being can have a positive impact on your sexual health and natural lubrication.
Remember, everybody is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. Be patient, experiment, and don’t hesitate to seek professional guidance if you’re struggling with persistent issues.