thehiddenpleasureempireI met a client who had trouble getting wet during sex. Every time she tried to be close to someone, it hurt, and she couldn’t understand why. As she shared her story, it reminded me of my past. You see, I once faced the same challenge. I used to wonder what was wrong with me because I didn’t know about getting wet or even much about sex at all! Back then, maybe I wasn’t ready to be sexually active, but that’s okay. We all start somewhere.
As we talked, she felt safer and we both trusted each other, and her story unfolded even more. I remembered how lost I felt years ago and how far I’ve come since. We laughed a little when I admitted that there was a time when I didn’t even get what being wet meant. It wasn’t about being right or wrong about our sexual experiences; it was about learning and growing.
Together, we explored her feelings and experiences. We learned that sometimes our bodies might need extra help or that we might have to work on our mindset, and that’s all part of the journey. I shared some things that helped me, like a lubricant to make things slippery and more comfortable or spending more time on foreplay to help her body get ready.
We also discussed how important it is to feel relaxed and connected with your partner. Sexual pleasure isn’t just about the physical part; it’s about feeling good inside too. With patience, understanding, and some practical tips, my client started to see a change. Each step forward made us both happy.
The truth is, sometimes sex can be tricky, and feeling dry down there is a bump on the road. But with a bit of help and lots of open talks, pleasure is possible. It feels fantastic to guide someone through what once was a rocky path for me. And now, as her sex coach, I’m cheering her on as she journeys toward enjoying sex with all the pleasure it can bring.
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