So, here we are in 2024, and believe it or not, some guys still think that good sex is just about banging and thrusting like they’re trying to win a gold medal in the Olympic thrusting event. Seriously, fellas, your pleasure game is at zero, and foreplay? What’s that? It’s like you’ve got a PhD in “suck and penetrate,” but forgot to take the class on “how to make my legs shake like jelly.”
Let’s break it down, shall we?
The Art of Foreplay
First off, let’s talk about mental and physical foreplay. I’m not asking for a Shakespearean sonnet here, but a little creativity goes a long way! How about some slow sex? You know, the kind where you actually take your time? A good kiss can set the mood—make it feel like we’re in a romantic movie instead of a wrestling match.
And please, when you come from behind, let your hand wander under the duvet like it’s on an adventure. Gently hold my boobs—yes, I said gently! Take your time getting to the nipple; I’m not talking about a one-second pit stop here. Let yourself enjoy the beauty and softness—feel free to get lost for a moment!
Slow Down and Enjoy
Now, don’t rush into thrusting like you’re late for an appointment. Instead of diving right in, how about letting your fingers explore my body? Trace a path from my chest to my stomach and back again. And when you finally decide to make your grand entrance, how about starting with some gentle teasing on the clit? Just focus on that sweet spot for a bit before you go for penetration.
Once you do decide to penetrate (because let’s face it, that’s part of the fun), give it those deliciously slow strokes—5 or 7 should do just fine. Then maybe pause for a moment and leave it in there like you’re savoring dessert after a nice meal. After five seconds of delicious anticipation, throw in some random deeper thrusts! Keep her guessing!
Keep Those Hands Busy
And just because you’re thrusting doesn’t mean your hands should be on vacation! When you take a break from thrusting, how about kissing her neck or giving her that sweet little sniff (in a totally non-creepy way)? Keep the good vibes flowing! Trust me; she’ll be singing your praises.
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